More Lessons
Back to the same subject. As far as emotions go, you just cannot win either. The sooner one realizes this, the less smashing one's head against a wall will be required. When you have hurt another, there is nothing that you can do or say that will be right. And everything that you do and say will be tabulated and held against you at a later date.If you smile and attempt a sort of happiness, then you are heartless and uneffected by the hurt. If you look as miserable and dejected as they, then you are looking for sympathy. If you do neither than you are cold and empty of emotion.
Similarly, if you are calm and collected then you don't truly have any emotions attached to the situation. But if you are distraught and passionate then you are putting on a show in an attempt to win sympathy. Or just plain insane.
Its best to admit to oneself that you just cannot win. And act exactly how you feel.
posted by rosey @ 10:17 PM
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But then when you act the way you feel it causes unecessary panic, at least in my case and I would assume in many others. If people don't care when you are happy, why should they care when you are sad? That is why I generally do not tell people how I genuinely feel. I hate it when people tell you you shouldn't feel bad, but I also hate when they only care when you aren't happy. As you say, it is a no win situation. Sign me up for therapy, quickly.
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